Overanalyzation - an ally or a foe!

so i spent saturday night attempting to figure out a series of text messages from a XY. in my slightly buzzed to drunken stupor, i entered a hazy confused state of "what is he trying to say?"

i entered a series of questions of "why did he tell me that?, why doesn't he just call me? what is he trying to say? what the hell...? did i really NEED to know all of that?"

haha...im sure my series of questions make it sound a lot worse but it really wasnt that bad.

here are our texts

him: So what are you getting yourself into this weekend?
me: not much just hanging out tonite and then time with the fam how about you?
him: On call, so sitting shirtless on my balcony eating chili and hoping the pager stays quiet. You know, boring stuff. Chili's good, though. ;)
me: on call? since i never asked you and what better time than now what do you do that youre stuck pager side on your balcony?

NO RESPONSE *a little later...*

me: so pager quiet or does someone need your professional assistance? :)
him: Eerily so. Worst part about that is knowing how irresponsible i could have been and it wouldn't have mattered. ;)
me: night is still young dear *insert name* and so are you! time to have fun until they need ya :)
him: Still, got to love your tenacity, hip-hop. :D Catch up with you later!
me: its the weekend and ya gotta have fun and im good and buzzed! lol have a good night and lets do something soon :)


soo i tend to overanalyze. i really thought he was telling me too much info with the whole shirtless bit but i guess that's him flirting over text...lol! who knowS! i let a friend check out the conversation and apparently he said i seemed to be way obvious throughout the conversation about wanting to hang out....i didnt think it was that bad...maybe im wrong! i dunno...

i'm starting to think i'm just gonna take the words for what it's worth..nothing more than that! i just hate the whole chasing thing but if that's the game, i guess i'll play it!

i'm starting to think that me overanalyzing things is going to be my downfall! booo!!