where did the GOOD boys go?

i was talking to one of my good guy friends last night and it made me wonder...when did he become such a 'bad' boy?

i love my guy friends but sometimes i just dont understand the other side!! it makes me wonder sometimes. they're all GREAT guys but during their single days, i just dont understand it!

maybe its just me but when did SEX become such a big voting issue??

it's funny because when i talk to them, it seems like booty calls and their NEED for sex overrules any rationale that they possess. sometimes, i KNOW its just a joke and they're just teasing me because it's me! why not? but when i give myself a moment to think, it really makes me reflect and wonder....are they just kidding or is this what guys are essentially about? or maybe...is this just how humans are??

i don't like taking it to such a philosophical, biological, biblical level because i'm not looking for all that. yes, one of the reasons why humans are put on earth is for procreation but having sex isn't always for the purpose of procreation. for most people, it's purely for pleasure! (seems like us and some of our ape brethren believe the same thing...if i remember correctly, bonobos (i think i spelled that right!) also have sex for pleasure!)

maybe i'm not meant to understand...once it, it is me! i just hate feeling that sex is such an issue. granted i know that it wouldn't be an issue if i just went with the flow of it but then again, it would then become IGNORING the issue! haha!

ahh...just something that my mind ponders about...