opposite sex friendships. . .is it possible to be purely plutonic?
so i went to austin this weekend. . thurs and fri nite. i had TONS of fun! fri nite was utter craziness. . .stayed out till almost 7am and then didnt try to go to bed till 8am but finally passed out by 10ish! its only considered crazy since i woke up at 1pm!

fri nite was interesting though. . . i hung out with one of my favorite guys and his motorola people and thats where i get the topic of tonite's blog which i will bring up later. i did have tons of fun with DG. i think i just enjoyed being around him. karaoking was cool even though he really does SUCK! and hanging out back at the apt was cool too. . gave me a chance to kinda just talk and hang out in a normal setting with him.

so tonite's topic for blogging: is it possible for guys and gals to be JUST friends?
so fri nite, this motorola dude asked me if my bud and i had ever dated. i told him never and he said that he SWORE that we were dating (had dating) when he first met me. i asked DG the same thing and he said that we were awfully close therefore he wouldnt be surprised if we did. so it makes me wonder if im conducting my friendships with guys in a weird way. are the only relationship posibilities between guys and gals: siblings, exes, dating, significant other, f*ck buddy and i think thats it. there's a possibility of you being the before dating, signif others, dating, f*ck buddy too! it just seems that being friends usually isnt the norm for close guy/gal relationships. it really makes me wonder. . .i think some of my friendships with my guy friends are the most amazing ones ever! they're always there for me no matter what and thats amazing! exactly what friends are for!

one other thing that i got out of my weekend: im not gonna worry too much about whats going on with DG. i told him i wanted to have fun and i am. im not gonna wonder whether things will or wont progress between us. just gonna go with the flow of things and see what happens =)